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Islam and Honesty
Someone asked the Prophet, "O Messenger of Allah, explain to me, what is most serious and most mild of Muslims?"The
Prophet said, "The most light in the Muslim creed is read or testimony
that there is no god but Allah and Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah.""While
most weight is honest life (be trustworthy). Indeed, there is no
religion for people who are not honest. In fact, no prayers and no
charity for those who are not honest." (Reported by Ahmad Bazzar).If a person believe they are honest they should. If it is not honest, it means not believe. If the diligent prayer, it should also honest. If not dishonest, wasteful means shalatnya. If people already tithe, it should also honest. If it is not honest, it means Zakat is not a positive impact for him.Anas
RA said, "In almost every sermon, the Prophet always remind about
honesty. He said, 'No faith for those who are not honest. No religion
for people who do not consistently meet the promise."HR
Ahmad Bazzar Thobaroni him mention his RA said, "The Messenger of Allah
said, 'Features hypocrites there are three, that discretion lies, false
promises, and they sell out when you get a message (not honest)." (Bukhari).Abdullah
bin Uthman said, "The Messenger of Allah said, 'There are four
attitudes have on a person if it is concerned is pure hypocrisy, that
message if I can, it is dishonest (dishonest) and would say, always
lies; if promises, false promises and when the business, shrewd. " (Bukhari and Muslim).Honest people that loved God. And, people who are not honest wrath of Almighty God. Honesty to be one main character of the Prophet, one of the essential character of the righteous.Honesty is the key to blessing. If honesty is lost in the middle of the community, it will lose its blessing as well. And, when the blessing is gone, life becomes dry, empty, without meaning.Life tinged with anxiety, fear, fear, anxiety, and frustration because of a confidential search for an honest man. Bish-shawab Allah knows best.
REFLECTION FOR ALL THAT IS STILL SINGLE OR MARRIED
Once
a king, a wealthy and very well, he has a lot of gold and brass,
because so much that between gold and brass blended into one. One
day the king of this kind to give a gift of gold to all his people, he
opened a warehouse and then let people take up their gold pieces.Because
between gold and brass blended into one that is very difficult to
differentiate, which is where the gold and brass, where the gold and 24
karat gold and which ones are only 1 carat, but there was a rule of the
king, that if they had to choose and take one of the gold, they can not return it anymore.But
the king promised to those who received only 1-carat gold or brass they
are getting, they can work and take care of the king's plantation house
giving it a good king, the king will increase levels of rust and give
it little by little.Hearing that the people rejoice, while hailing the king. They
come from all over the place, and each one of them, being careful to
observing the objects, the time allotted to them all is one and a half
days, with the calculation of half-day to vote, half a day to reflect
on, and a half days to decide.The
soldiers are always ready to maintain the security of the electoral
gold, because gold is rare that the same struggle between them. During
the selection process takes place, a soldier tried to ask for one of
his people, "what are you most-watched, so that one day you spend half
your time here?", He replied that "of course I have to be careful, I
have to get 24 gold rust it ",soldier
then asked again "if the 24-carat gold was never there, or there is
only one among a pile of gold, are you still looking?, while your time
is very limited," the man said again "of course not, I'll take the gold
The last ditanganku so my time out there. "Then
the soldiers around and she met a handsome, see temperament he was a
rich man, asked the soldier to him "O rich people what you're looking
for here, would not you have more than enough?" , Replied the rich man's "Life to me is the money, if I could take this gold, of course, that meant adding my benefit".Then
the soldiers came back watching each one of them, it seemed to him a
person, who since the day he was always holding a piece of gold, then
dihampirinya him "why are you still here?, Do not you choose the
gold-gold? Or tekadmu was made to take the
gold? ", heard the words of the soldier, this man sat silent, then
asked another soldier," or you believe it is 24 karat gold, so you no
longer try to look for another? ", the person was still silent, the
soldiers Curious, then he is approached again"Do
you not hear my question?", Looking at the soldier, the man replied "I
am the master of this poor man, I never know where the gold and which
ones are brass, but I chose this golden heart, so I do not know, what
is the gold content, or if it is only kuninganpun gold I do not know ". "Then why do not you try asking them, or me if you do not know" prajutit asked again."Mr.
Gold and brass are belong to the king, so I think only the king who
knew where the gold and which ones are brass, which is 1 carat and 24
carat which ones. But one thing I believe in the promise of the king to
turn brass into gold was a more important "he replied innocently. Soldiers
are increasingly curious about "why is that?", "For me regardless of
the levels of karat gold is enough for me, because when I work, it took
me years of saving to buy a gold master"soldier
seemed stunned to hear the answer from this guy, then he went on his
words "after all, sir, I can not change the rules of gold that had I
taken", "do not you take another gold-gold and exchange it now, while
there is still time?" asked another soldier, "I've used that time, now my last half a day,I
decided it was time, if I replace it ith another gold, I have not
necessarily better than mine, I decided to serve the king and take care
of my property, to make pure gold ", soon the bells palace reads, signs have ended their activities.Then
the king came out and stood high in place, saying "O my people whom I
loved, all the gold that you hold it is a gift that I have given, in
accordance with the agreement, no one is allowed to change or to waste
the gift, if you found it on the person's will be punished because he did not respect the king "wrote words were warmly welcomed by the people.And
then again before the king wanted to tell people about one thing ", and
know that there really is not 24 karat gold, it is intended that you
all must serve the kingdom, and only me who can increase the amount of
rust it, because I have it. During
a half day, day of the second half is when I gave time to all of you to
ponder the choice, I waited for you guys coming to me asking about the
gold, but unfortunately only one person who comes to me to ask ". So the king a kind and wise man taught his people, and for years she was patiently adding karat gold one by one from his people.Quoted
from: Sharing and short story collection Original Title: When We Have
to Choice Once Expect through the above we can reflect ourselves in
finding a life partner:•
For those who are looking for a girlfriend alias pairs (half-day to
select) Selects are allowed but no man is perfect, do not forget the
gold-gold that belonged to the king, so only he who knows anything
about the matter, meaning that every human being belongs to God so pray to communicate with him about your partner.•
For those who have acquired but not yet married couples (half a day to
reflect) the first time you probably know, he's appeared 24 karat gold,
it turns out after all these years know, he's only yield 10 carats. Regardless,
we are faced with many choices, together with the people choose gold
yangm earlier, but at the moment we've got it, not necessarily when we
release it we got better. So
if you feel at this stage have earned him the best thing to do is to
assess the objektiv who he is (because of the openness and
communication are very important in a relationship), and align your
heart with him, so you know about the ugliest thing in him before you it
is better to marry, so you do not feel shock after getting married,
live how you receive it, you can accept it or not, you seek the change
or not, "love always fight", and do not think there is never a problem
in the way you love, it If in this stage you have never experienced a problem with your partner (never fight possible). You
actually have to be careful, because this is an unhealthy relationship,
it means a lot of pretense that is displayed in your relationship the
most important is goodwill among the partners, so that with commitment
and love, things always work out. Although
in this stage you still have time and a half days left to decide, that
means you can still change the option, but consider this well.•
For those who are married (and a half days to decide) In this stage,
whoever he means that you have taken the decision to select it, do not
think to take advantage of your spouse, if this happens then you
selfish, just like rich people above, and with so you are never satisfied with your partner, it is no wonder a lot going affair. You
should not feel sorry for your own choice, do not worry the king always
pay attention to people, and increase the levels of rust on the gold.So trust that God will surely take notice of you, and He is the most powerful change for everyone. Divorce
is not the solution, until when we have to get married and then
divorced, remarried and divorced again?, Remember the he is a gift,
whoever he is once again receive him because that's your choice,
remember this is the last half a day is the time to decide, after that you should not trade or meyia wasting your gold, so guard your partner as the best gift God has given. And whatever happened to your partner Communicate with God, for He who has the heart of every human being ........
ROLE Hypnosis / Hypnotherapy IN MOTIVATION AND Empowerment
Continuing
the previous article about the effectiveness of hypnotherapy in the
healing process, in this article will be reviewed on the motivation and
empowerment of the hypnosis or hypnotherapy. Lately
a lot of motivation training from Anthony Robbins is famous for its
Fire Walking, Get Your Mind AlphaPower organized by Technology,
training, NLP (Neuro Language Program), Ari Ginanjar with its ESQ, of
which use the modern approach to pattern religious spiritual, where all the training aims to raise motivation and empowerment of human beings. And what is the average obtained from the training? Increased self-confidence, we become people who always think positive, think more wisely in the face of "reality". Can
stimulate yourself to be more 'robust' in dealing with the situation
(whatever) that may not be profitable in a much more sensible. In addition, able to empower themselves to deal with medical and non medical illness.
The general objective in building motivation and empowerment (empowerment) is that there is a harmony or balance of mind, soul and mentally within ourselves so that we could offset the environmental circumstances of everyday that may affect our behavior. 'In line', so that we are mentally stronger and wiser in dealing with problems of everyday life. We can be more calm in thinking and acting. Always think positive. Even in situations that do not support the environment, behavior and our activities are not disrupted.
Regarding motivation itself may freely be said as a 'lure' or goal that made us with all your mind, body and soul we will try anything to obtain 'the lure' is.
Each person must have the motivation, positive or negative, unless he has a mental health problem (mental illness).
(Note the terminology for this paper: the definition of 'positive' is in accordance with the rules, order, ethics generally accepted then, and in accordance with the teachings of the religion which teaches such virtues, manners and so on. While the definition of 'negative' is opposite or contrary to the above)
In a behavioral or mental problems (excluding aspects of ethics, religion, manners, etc..), Provided that he understands and he's real motivation to act according to his motivation, then this person will not be psychiatric or mental problems.
Each issue of motivation has always been associated with behaviors or actions.
There are four categories for this:
First:An ideal situation. We know our true motives and that the actions / behavior in accordance with our motivation.
("I know what I want")
Example:An employee who is always late to work overtime as motivated because his wife would give birth to her first child so of labor costs. The employee has no problem even though he had to work overtime, as pictured in his mind a joy to have her first child. He will work willingly and gladly. People around him were no problems with him.
A mafioso murder and robbery everywhere, as motivated to get a lot of money and power. The mafioso is also no problem with a mental or behavior, because even though he committed the murder, his motivation is to power this way. Basically he did like it. Obviously, he was not accepted by the environment, but for small environments or perhaps he was accepted among the bandits.
Second:We know our true motives, but because of various things, actions / behaviors we are not in accordance with our motives, or actions / behaviors are not in accordance with the applicable order or wrong. (In the Java language to say 'eccentric').
("I know but it is hard")
Example:A teen wants to be free from the problem of pressure from his parents so he fled to the drug so that the problem is solved. The motivation is that he wants to be free, but its actions Selah causing a problem.A steal money because he wanted his wife happy. It is correct that the motivation to happy wife, but his actions are not true. People forced to work in a place which he is not in accordance with his conscience forced him to do so because of economic motivations. Someone wants to lose weight, but still overeating.
Third:We do not know our true motives. We think just the act alone. The important thing is not a negative action. ("I can act as long as it is right and what is not negative even though I do not know what I want, just do it" - speculative)
To this category might not be a problem if he feels that whatever happens is the way it is (let go). Hopefully if it works, but if it fails to take it for granted.
On certain people may not be like this. Although mouth to say that if it fails it is, but the extraordinary turmoil in his heart.
Like a chicken loses its mother, he would menciap-ciap continue because they do not know what to do.
This category has the potential to have behavioral problems that arise (usually occurs later) when the offender suffered an emotional shock.
Example:Any one willing to work even though he had to work day and night without stopping. If asked why he works like that, he would answer "Yes ..., I do not know, like just". He feels there is no problem with his actions because his actions only on process-oriented course.
Now imagine, if one day there was a termination of employment in the workplace. If he is resigned to the situation, then any change in the work environment will not affect the attitudes and behavior and he may be looking for another job.
Apparently, not everyone can be resigned to the situation. He would 'hurt', where the behavior will be disrupted as stress, depression or other problems. He will be a 'prisoner'. Every time just complain, complain, and complain.
Imagine if he was not strong to face it (this is often the case), the appearance may not be visible, but from then on he began a medical illness like diabetes or high blood pressure and so on.
Fourth:We do not know our true motivation so that the actions / behavior must be wrong because it does not correspond to our real motivation. Even if his actions look really, really just camouflage it because we certainly do not feel completely satisfied.
("I do not know what I want" - so suppose, assume, and 'chance')
Generally, this category also potentially create new problems, making a simple problem that had become more complex and complicated.
Example:One's wife in order to reduce eating excessively lean because he thought that if you eat healthy does not mean much. After the therapy, was his motivation for wanting to lean into the limelight with a new physique.
Privately, people in the first category, both in the soul, mental and behavioral, are not very problematic. No matter the motivation is positive or negative. The difference, if he's positive motivation, he would be environmentally acceptable. Whereas if the negative motivation may only be accepted in certain circles, or the environment, but he's still comfortable.
Similarly, in medical terms. Someone who is medically affected by diabetes, he knew that this life should be lived as it is and realize that humans do a lot of trials. important for him to live happily. Because he knows his motivation to be happy, he did not think too much about diabetes. He was treated as usual, and his behavior was not affected. He remained as usual, normal activities without any sense of stress or depression.
In the second category, the third and fourth place is usually a mental and behavioral problems such as the examples above. Very different if the person in the above case, as in category three, he knows he's motivation really is. Surely he does not need to be a "prisoner" who every day are always complaining. He will be forward thinking and positive to try the other where the motivation is to live happily.
See as examples of cases that emerged since 1998, many people are affected by layoffs may even be a successful entrepreneur because they have a clear positive motivation and able to empower them.
What affects the motivation that result in our behavior?
Situation and condition of the city and the current progress of time has influenced the atmosphere and environment around us. Directly or indirectly, for good or bad, it affects our mental and erilaku. As a result, it may be unconsciously motivated to be changed, or we do not have time / not able to empower our true motivation. Now, depending on our own attitude is, Can we overcome / compensate in the absence of mental and behavioral changes that we remain firmly of the opinion on the real motives? or "tune in" in that environment so that our behavior and attitudes are not compromised in the face even though we still refer to our true motivation? or we can view it with an attitude wise? or we drift with the condition because it was not concerned with our initial motivation? or we are unable to balance and harmony so that we are frustrated to this situation because we're so adamant in our real motivation?.
A lot of mental problems and behaviors that arise because of direct or indirect influence of the environment around us. A person becomes stressed because it was not right in the premises of the employer or his neighborhood, but he could not break away from their jobs because of economic demands so inevitably he must be there.
Perhaps these problems do not occur if the condition we are in a very conducive environment, very safe, peaceful and comfortable as in a quiet countryside, safe, calm, like in fairy tales. But is life in the era of globalization, especially in big cities, can be like that? Humans are required to compete with each other after all forms and manner, so that anxiety, a sense of stress, or depression can occur at any time.
So what to do?What happens if it is not able to 'tune' with the environment? And how do you get 'in tune'?
Motivation and self-empowerment become the main capital. With this benchmark we are trying so that we do not feel depressed, do not feel stressed, or frustrated in the face of environmental situations like that, which is full of competition (healthy or unhealthy), according or not according to their conscience.
If not able, then we become "sick" is caused by the environment itself.
And maybe we'll say 'we are very violent environment'. But with our ability to create harmony with the environment as if we felt it was 'tame' the environment so that mental and behavioral problems do not exist.
In this case, motivation and self-empowerment is important in the process of 'prevention and cure "an" illness "and mental behavior. By having a clear motivation (to themselves) to make us wise.
With a cool head we can solve a problem better because we can discern between what the effect will be adverse and beneficial to us, to sort out which are negative and which positive, good or bad, and so on so that we can determine what action is appropriate with the self- and motivation.
In addition to "the behavior and mental illness", the motivation and empowerment will also be important in the healing process of a medical illness. As explained in previous posts about "Hypnotherapy as an aid to the healing process", the healing process will go smoothly if the motivation to recover is also great. With the clarity of a motivation, "I want to recover from this disease because I am motivated to make my family be happy", then automatically we will empower yourself to heal and achieve the expected motivation.
The next question, "What's the motivation and empowerment are raised and maintained?"
Some of the complaints that often arises is derived from the second category, three and four above."My head was dizzy continue. I want to heal and want my activities are not disturbed by this, I've tried it but it was difficult", "I want to be free from problems that interfere with my activities, but it is very difficult." And more difficult to overcome, usually people are getting frustrated, giving rise to more complex problems, even propagate in the direction of medical illnesses such as high blood pressure, gout, and so forth.
In other cases, one wants to lose weight but it was difficult because there are still happy to eat a lot. Generally he does not know what the real motivation (this is the most frequently occurring) that makes him want to lose weight. The motivation has been overshadowed by the desire to eat a lot.
Indeed, it is very easy to say it in your mouth '"I want to be free of this problem", but his actions did not reflect that desire. Looking for an escape in order to rid themselves of the problem may be performed, such as excessive eating, drugs, liquor, and others. But keep in mind, refugees are not necessarily free him from his main problem so the next time the "disease" that recur again. It is also dangerous because it is suspected the possibility of new problems that caused the problem is really simple to more complex.
It is often the case, say A in the liver mouthfeel was Z.In contrast to someone who is very clear and understand her motivation. He will automatically do an empowerment in such a way as to achieve what he wanted.A person who wants to lose weight because of his motivation to please his partner. Automatically, he will act or behave anything that makes their partner happy including to lose weight.
Or, as an example the case of the three categories above, if the person understands that his motivation is to suppose that a happy family, he certainly will empower her to immediately find another job. We can see how the example, many people who are successful even after the 1998 crisis.
Or in medical terms, sesesorang athletes want to be cured of the disease at this time, because it motivated that if he recovers will be able to compete in a championship that he had long craved. The athlete will certainly empower such a way, such as mild exercise can help treat the disease, follow the doctor's advice and so on. Imagine if he was not motivated, the athlete may be lazy to do it all.
In terms of everyday life, a diligent child to school because motivated to meet his girlfriend at school not to learn.And much more.
In fact, raised up the motivation and empower them to do by our own if we can think clearly, our minds are calm and relaxed. But if the state of our environment can make us think clearly and calmly that every day we are always hunted by our work and activities? Not everyone can do it.
In the process of hypnotherapy by a professional Hypnotherapist, through specific techniques and methods, a given client's therapy so that she is really 'clear' with her true motivation. With the clarity of this motivation, the client, with no sense of critical and analytical and without doubt, will perform self-empowerment in order to achieve motivation. The high motivation to complete the 'disease' or they have problems, make the client empowerment such that the process of 'healing' or solving the problem can be run smoothly.
In addition to clarifying the motivation, a hypnotherapist may also provide a new perspective to a client who was having a negative motivation has shifted so that new, positive motivation and gives views on new values.
A Hypnotherapist is not a psychic, or astrologer, or people who have supernatural powers that can generate a motivation in an instant like a magician by just turning the palm of the hand. Not everything can be done like that. Remember, the human soul is unique. As already mentioned, each person may react differently in the same exact problem. In an empowerment to achieve a motivasipun, people can still change.
How motivating to a client so that he does empowerment, is a challenge for a hypnotherapist (This process is referred to as the 'hypno-therapeutic')
In terms of medical illnesses, as has been done by experts hypnotherapist, therapeutic process can also reduce a client's medical condition gradually. Clients can address his mental problems with a clearer mind and more positive.
Actually, the method of hypnotherapy as this has been done by religious leaders (clerics or a cleric, a priest or a priest, a monk, or a counselor, etc.) in their activities to build character values of the sublime. The goal is the same, although the approach is different technique, which they use spiritual religious emphasis, guiding the client to the client realize her true motivation and empowerment appropriate motivations in accordance with the basic values held.
A professional hypnotherapist, although he was not a counselor, not a psychiatrist, not a psychologist, not a doctor, or rather a religious leader, he can do the same, because the hypnotherapist usually pay more attention to the process of therapy rather than 'content'. The difference is that he did not instill the basic values unless a new expert (physicians, psychologists, psychiatrists, counselors, religious pemukia). But, as mentioned in previous posts, BE BETTER if a hypnotherapist understand things related to the values of life, spiritual and religious. Surely this can or can also be studied through personal experience or the experience of others. Experience yourself is usually more effective than just learning because of the emotional element of taste and touch. How could he know family matters in depth if they themselves had never been married?
Vice versa, if a religious leader, counselor, doctor, psychiatrist or psychologist is equipped with the techniques of hypnotherapy, it will be better and more effective in carrying out its activities. They already have a basic knowledge of the values that stay the way instill those values to their clients more effectively.
However, DO NOT WORRY, although as a hypnotherapist you are not a physician, psychiatrist, psychologist, counselor, or a religious leader, you can still do it. Each client has a basic value, character and different belief systems, and we are not supermen who can solve everything. Therefore, a hypnotherapist can work with them (psychiatrists, psychologists, doctors, counselors, religious leaders, etc.) to solve a client problem. And vice versa.
In other countries, such as in Europe and America, it is an unusual thing when a hypnotherapist to give each client a referral to a problem with a psychologist, psychiatrist or other. Because, basically, a medicine may not be handled only by one person, but he was very great.
This shows that the application of hypnotherapy is very broad and useful for everyday life to motivating and empowering themselves. This paper describes only a small role of hypnotherapy. There are many more other functions of hypnosis / hypnotherapy, such as in aspects of management, communications, marketing / promotion, corporate, legal, domestic, and others.
With this view, if we still have the view that hypnosis or hypnotherapy is a bad, bad, or dangerous .....??
The general objective in building motivation and empowerment (empowerment) is that there is a harmony or balance of mind, soul and mentally within ourselves so that we could offset the environmental circumstances of everyday that may affect our behavior. 'In line', so that we are mentally stronger and wiser in dealing with problems of everyday life. We can be more calm in thinking and acting. Always think positive. Even in situations that do not support the environment, behavior and our activities are not disrupted.
Regarding motivation itself may freely be said as a 'lure' or goal that made us with all your mind, body and soul we will try anything to obtain 'the lure' is.
Each person must have the motivation, positive or negative, unless he has a mental health problem (mental illness).
(Note the terminology for this paper: the definition of 'positive' is in accordance with the rules, order, ethics generally accepted then, and in accordance with the teachings of the religion which teaches such virtues, manners and so on. While the definition of 'negative' is opposite or contrary to the above)
In a behavioral or mental problems (excluding aspects of ethics, religion, manners, etc..), Provided that he understands and he's real motivation to act according to his motivation, then this person will not be psychiatric or mental problems.
Each issue of motivation has always been associated with behaviors or actions.
There are four categories for this:
First:An ideal situation. We know our true motives and that the actions / behavior in accordance with our motivation.
("I know what I want")
Example:An employee who is always late to work overtime as motivated because his wife would give birth to her first child so of labor costs. The employee has no problem even though he had to work overtime, as pictured in his mind a joy to have her first child. He will work willingly and gladly. People around him were no problems with him.
A mafioso murder and robbery everywhere, as motivated to get a lot of money and power. The mafioso is also no problem with a mental or behavior, because even though he committed the murder, his motivation is to power this way. Basically he did like it. Obviously, he was not accepted by the environment, but for small environments or perhaps he was accepted among the bandits.
Second:We know our true motives, but because of various things, actions / behaviors we are not in accordance with our motives, or actions / behaviors are not in accordance with the applicable order or wrong. (In the Java language to say 'eccentric').
("I know but it is hard")
Example:A teen wants to be free from the problem of pressure from his parents so he fled to the drug so that the problem is solved. The motivation is that he wants to be free, but its actions Selah causing a problem.A steal money because he wanted his wife happy. It is correct that the motivation to happy wife, but his actions are not true. People forced to work in a place which he is not in accordance with his conscience forced him to do so because of economic motivations. Someone wants to lose weight, but still overeating.
Third:We do not know our true motives. We think just the act alone. The important thing is not a negative action. ("I can act as long as it is right and what is not negative even though I do not know what I want, just do it" - speculative)
To this category might not be a problem if he feels that whatever happens is the way it is (let go). Hopefully if it works, but if it fails to take it for granted.
On certain people may not be like this. Although mouth to say that if it fails it is, but the extraordinary turmoil in his heart.
Like a chicken loses its mother, he would menciap-ciap continue because they do not know what to do.
This category has the potential to have behavioral problems that arise (usually occurs later) when the offender suffered an emotional shock.
Example:Any one willing to work even though he had to work day and night without stopping. If asked why he works like that, he would answer "Yes ..., I do not know, like just". He feels there is no problem with his actions because his actions only on process-oriented course.
Now imagine, if one day there was a termination of employment in the workplace. If he is resigned to the situation, then any change in the work environment will not affect the attitudes and behavior and he may be looking for another job.
Apparently, not everyone can be resigned to the situation. He would 'hurt', where the behavior will be disrupted as stress, depression or other problems. He will be a 'prisoner'. Every time just complain, complain, and complain.
Imagine if he was not strong to face it (this is often the case), the appearance may not be visible, but from then on he began a medical illness like diabetes or high blood pressure and so on.
Fourth:We do not know our true motivation so that the actions / behavior must be wrong because it does not correspond to our real motivation. Even if his actions look really, really just camouflage it because we certainly do not feel completely satisfied.
("I do not know what I want" - so suppose, assume, and 'chance')
Generally, this category also potentially create new problems, making a simple problem that had become more complex and complicated.
Example:One's wife in order to reduce eating excessively lean because he thought that if you eat healthy does not mean much. After the therapy, was his motivation for wanting to lean into the limelight with a new physique.
Privately, people in the first category, both in the soul, mental and behavioral, are not very problematic. No matter the motivation is positive or negative. The difference, if he's positive motivation, he would be environmentally acceptable. Whereas if the negative motivation may only be accepted in certain circles, or the environment, but he's still comfortable.
Similarly, in medical terms. Someone who is medically affected by diabetes, he knew that this life should be lived as it is and realize that humans do a lot of trials. important for him to live happily. Because he knows his motivation to be happy, he did not think too much about diabetes. He was treated as usual, and his behavior was not affected. He remained as usual, normal activities without any sense of stress or depression.
In the second category, the third and fourth place is usually a mental and behavioral problems such as the examples above. Very different if the person in the above case, as in category three, he knows he's motivation really is. Surely he does not need to be a "prisoner" who every day are always complaining. He will be forward thinking and positive to try the other where the motivation is to live happily.
See as examples of cases that emerged since 1998, many people are affected by layoffs may even be a successful entrepreneur because they have a clear positive motivation and able to empower them.
What affects the motivation that result in our behavior?
Situation and condition of the city and the current progress of time has influenced the atmosphere and environment around us. Directly or indirectly, for good or bad, it affects our mental and erilaku. As a result, it may be unconsciously motivated to be changed, or we do not have time / not able to empower our true motivation. Now, depending on our own attitude is, Can we overcome / compensate in the absence of mental and behavioral changes that we remain firmly of the opinion on the real motives? or "tune in" in that environment so that our behavior and attitudes are not compromised in the face even though we still refer to our true motivation? or we can view it with an attitude wise? or we drift with the condition because it was not concerned with our initial motivation? or we are unable to balance and harmony so that we are frustrated to this situation because we're so adamant in our real motivation?.
A lot of mental problems and behaviors that arise because of direct or indirect influence of the environment around us. A person becomes stressed because it was not right in the premises of the employer or his neighborhood, but he could not break away from their jobs because of economic demands so inevitably he must be there.
Perhaps these problems do not occur if the condition we are in a very conducive environment, very safe, peaceful and comfortable as in a quiet countryside, safe, calm, like in fairy tales. But is life in the era of globalization, especially in big cities, can be like that? Humans are required to compete with each other after all forms and manner, so that anxiety, a sense of stress, or depression can occur at any time.
So what to do?What happens if it is not able to 'tune' with the environment? And how do you get 'in tune'?
Motivation and self-empowerment become the main capital. With this benchmark we are trying so that we do not feel depressed, do not feel stressed, or frustrated in the face of environmental situations like that, which is full of competition (healthy or unhealthy), according or not according to their conscience.
If not able, then we become "sick" is caused by the environment itself.
And maybe we'll say 'we are very violent environment'. But with our ability to create harmony with the environment as if we felt it was 'tame' the environment so that mental and behavioral problems do not exist.
In this case, motivation and self-empowerment is important in the process of 'prevention and cure "an" illness "and mental behavior. By having a clear motivation (to themselves) to make us wise.
With a cool head we can solve a problem better because we can discern between what the effect will be adverse and beneficial to us, to sort out which are negative and which positive, good or bad, and so on so that we can determine what action is appropriate with the self- and motivation.
In addition to "the behavior and mental illness", the motivation and empowerment will also be important in the healing process of a medical illness. As explained in previous posts about "Hypnotherapy as an aid to the healing process", the healing process will go smoothly if the motivation to recover is also great. With the clarity of a motivation, "I want to recover from this disease because I am motivated to make my family be happy", then automatically we will empower yourself to heal and achieve the expected motivation.
The next question, "What's the motivation and empowerment are raised and maintained?"
Some of the complaints that often arises is derived from the second category, three and four above."My head was dizzy continue. I want to heal and want my activities are not disturbed by this, I've tried it but it was difficult", "I want to be free from problems that interfere with my activities, but it is very difficult." And more difficult to overcome, usually people are getting frustrated, giving rise to more complex problems, even propagate in the direction of medical illnesses such as high blood pressure, gout, and so forth.
In other cases, one wants to lose weight but it was difficult because there are still happy to eat a lot. Generally he does not know what the real motivation (this is the most frequently occurring) that makes him want to lose weight. The motivation has been overshadowed by the desire to eat a lot.
Indeed, it is very easy to say it in your mouth '"I want to be free of this problem", but his actions did not reflect that desire. Looking for an escape in order to rid themselves of the problem may be performed, such as excessive eating, drugs, liquor, and others. But keep in mind, refugees are not necessarily free him from his main problem so the next time the "disease" that recur again. It is also dangerous because it is suspected the possibility of new problems that caused the problem is really simple to more complex.
It is often the case, say A in the liver mouthfeel was Z.In contrast to someone who is very clear and understand her motivation. He will automatically do an empowerment in such a way as to achieve what he wanted.A person who wants to lose weight because of his motivation to please his partner. Automatically, he will act or behave anything that makes their partner happy including to lose weight.
Or, as an example the case of the three categories above, if the person understands that his motivation is to suppose that a happy family, he certainly will empower her to immediately find another job. We can see how the example, many people who are successful even after the 1998 crisis.
Or in medical terms, sesesorang athletes want to be cured of the disease at this time, because it motivated that if he recovers will be able to compete in a championship that he had long craved. The athlete will certainly empower such a way, such as mild exercise can help treat the disease, follow the doctor's advice and so on. Imagine if he was not motivated, the athlete may be lazy to do it all.
In terms of everyday life, a diligent child to school because motivated to meet his girlfriend at school not to learn.And much more.
In fact, raised up the motivation and empower them to do by our own if we can think clearly, our minds are calm and relaxed. But if the state of our environment can make us think clearly and calmly that every day we are always hunted by our work and activities? Not everyone can do it.
In the process of hypnotherapy by a professional Hypnotherapist, through specific techniques and methods, a given client's therapy so that she is really 'clear' with her true motivation. With the clarity of this motivation, the client, with no sense of critical and analytical and without doubt, will perform self-empowerment in order to achieve motivation. The high motivation to complete the 'disease' or they have problems, make the client empowerment such that the process of 'healing' or solving the problem can be run smoothly.
In addition to clarifying the motivation, a hypnotherapist may also provide a new perspective to a client who was having a negative motivation has shifted so that new, positive motivation and gives views on new values.
A Hypnotherapist is not a psychic, or astrologer, or people who have supernatural powers that can generate a motivation in an instant like a magician by just turning the palm of the hand. Not everything can be done like that. Remember, the human soul is unique. As already mentioned, each person may react differently in the same exact problem. In an empowerment to achieve a motivasipun, people can still change.
How motivating to a client so that he does empowerment, is a challenge for a hypnotherapist (This process is referred to as the 'hypno-therapeutic')
In terms of medical illnesses, as has been done by experts hypnotherapist, therapeutic process can also reduce a client's medical condition gradually. Clients can address his mental problems with a clearer mind and more positive.
Actually, the method of hypnotherapy as this has been done by religious leaders (clerics or a cleric, a priest or a priest, a monk, or a counselor, etc.) in their activities to build character values of the sublime. The goal is the same, although the approach is different technique, which they use spiritual religious emphasis, guiding the client to the client realize her true motivation and empowerment appropriate motivations in accordance with the basic values held.
A professional hypnotherapist, although he was not a counselor, not a psychiatrist, not a psychologist, not a doctor, or rather a religious leader, he can do the same, because the hypnotherapist usually pay more attention to the process of therapy rather than 'content'. The difference is that he did not instill the basic values unless a new expert (physicians, psychologists, psychiatrists, counselors, religious pemukia). But, as mentioned in previous posts, BE BETTER if a hypnotherapist understand things related to the values of life, spiritual and religious. Surely this can or can also be studied through personal experience or the experience of others. Experience yourself is usually more effective than just learning because of the emotional element of taste and touch. How could he know family matters in depth if they themselves had never been married?
Vice versa, if a religious leader, counselor, doctor, psychiatrist or psychologist is equipped with the techniques of hypnotherapy, it will be better and more effective in carrying out its activities. They already have a basic knowledge of the values that stay the way instill those values to their clients more effectively.
However, DO NOT WORRY, although as a hypnotherapist you are not a physician, psychiatrist, psychologist, counselor, or a religious leader, you can still do it. Each client has a basic value, character and different belief systems, and we are not supermen who can solve everything. Therefore, a hypnotherapist can work with them (psychiatrists, psychologists, doctors, counselors, religious leaders, etc.) to solve a client problem. And vice versa.
In other countries, such as in Europe and America, it is an unusual thing when a hypnotherapist to give each client a referral to a problem with a psychologist, psychiatrist or other. Because, basically, a medicine may not be handled only by one person, but he was very great.
This shows that the application of hypnotherapy is very broad and useful for everyday life to motivating and empowering themselves. This paper describes only a small role of hypnotherapy. There are many more other functions of hypnosis / hypnotherapy, such as in aspects of management, communications, marketing / promotion, corporate, legal, domestic, and others.
With this view, if we still have the view that hypnosis or hypnotherapy is a bad, bad, or dangerous .....??
Monday, 9 April 2012
the beutiful word
It
is not helpful money, wealth, and happiness if the people around us are
still suffering because of persecution by our behavior.People
who do not receive the light of truth will always feel fear, doubt,
worry, and always feel at risk in every step of his life.No
day without seeking knowledge, no day but growing charity, and no day
but our hearts will increase the net with the management of heart.Despite berkuah sweat drenched in sweat, exhaust, exhausted mind, if not sincere, there is no value in the sight of Allah.People
who are sincere will not manipulate a variety of words so full of
charm, but his effort so that every word of God is really like.Sometimes the threat of life makes a person closer to God, but the emptiness test is much more severe than in a narrow test.Instead of accusing each other, the better we work hard to berahklak well and prove it by providing aid to people in need.The pain we are experiencing should not be an occasion to indulge in order to get more attention and a burden to others.A
rich man who worships the ability to manage wealth for the people
kemashlahatan so he was honored for his philanthropy rather than his
wealth.The liver is the potential that could complement a smart brain and body to be healthy, so a noble human being in God's eyes.Berpostur
good woman is not synonymous with glory, not even coming down a little
fond of showing off the beauty of the degree because his body.Good moral people who do not depend on light or dark, because he will still have a certain well although no one is watching.
If our hearts are alive with the knowledge and remembrance of God, wherever we live, we will not be affected by the disobedience.The cause of anger and frustration that we experience may not realize is that the wishes and hopes are high that we haveAs we increasingly understand how great the reward of Allah, then it does not mean growing appreciation that we receive from humans.The glory of a person will not be reduced simply because the abused, insulted, humiliated, abused and hurt others, because the location we have the moral glory.Do not make belief in God as a place to hide ourselves from endeavors laziness and perseverance.Careful - very careful that we do see the charity began to weaken when given pleasure, because it is a sign that we are not sincere in charity.
If our hearts are alive with the knowledge and remembrance of God, wherever we live, we will not be affected by the disobedience.The cause of anger and frustration that we experience may not realize is that the wishes and hopes are high that we haveAs we increasingly understand how great the reward of Allah, then it does not mean growing appreciation that we receive from humans.The glory of a person will not be reduced simply because the abused, insulted, humiliated, abused and hurt others, because the location we have the moral glory.Do not make belief in God as a place to hide ourselves from endeavors laziness and perseverance.Careful - very careful that we do see the charity began to weaken when given pleasure, because it is a sign that we are not sincere in charity.
Setting smart modem easily
Smart
Modem settings, username, password - After several months of the
emergence of HP 3G CDMA Modem and Internet access from Smart Telecom
began to feel the decline speed internet access, especially at rush
hour. It lists different types of natural thing because many use and cheap packages on offer.
If we're talking smart way to speed up internet is that it seems absolutely impossible. This is because the number of users and the pathway used cdma fixed capacity. But here there will be some way to slightly speed up the connection via a setting on the computer (Windows), browsers, and APN (Access Point Name) is not busy.SETTING THE COMPUTER / WINDOWS
This setting is the general settings for all Internet connections, the seeting QoS Packet Scheduler, and TCP / IP.
If using QoS Packet Sceduler please edit Group Policy (gpedit.msc). Sign In Computer Configuration - Administrative Templates - Network - QoS Packet Scheduler. Change Limit Outstanding Packets of not configured to be enabled and the Bandwidth Limit (%) = 0. This will save us 20% of bandwidth used by Microsoft...
In the TCP / IP services can we set in regedit, which is in the HKLM \ System \ CurrentControlSet \ Services \ Tcpip \ parameters and edit the value in the register:
* DefaultTTL content value 00000040* EnablePMTUBHDetect content value 00000000* EnablePMTUDiscovery content value 00000001* GlobalMaxTcpWindowSize content value 0005ae4c* SackOpts content value 00000001* Tcp1323Opts content value 00,000,003* TcpWindowSize content value 0005ae4c* Restart the PC
INTERNET BROWSER SETTINGS AND TOOLS
* To optimize the browser, we can use to Speed up Firefox & Mozilla* Can you also use cFosSpeed tools such as the Accelerating Access the Internet with cFosSpeed
SETTING SMART APN
Due to the busy path used in # 777 username and password smart. Try to combine dialup * 777 # or 222 or * 99 # or * 31 * 11 111 # with the username and password is cdma or wap
If we're talking smart way to speed up internet is that it seems absolutely impossible. This is because the number of users and the pathway used cdma fixed capacity. But here there will be some way to slightly speed up the connection via a setting on the computer (Windows), browsers, and APN (Access Point Name) is not busy.SETTING THE COMPUTER / WINDOWS
This setting is the general settings for all Internet connections, the seeting QoS Packet Scheduler, and TCP / IP.
If using QoS Packet Sceduler please edit Group Policy (gpedit.msc). Sign In Computer Configuration - Administrative Templates - Network - QoS Packet Scheduler. Change Limit Outstanding Packets of not configured to be enabled and the Bandwidth Limit (%) = 0. This will save us 20% of bandwidth used by Microsoft...
In the TCP / IP services can we set in regedit, which is in the HKLM \ System \ CurrentControlSet \ Services \ Tcpip \ parameters and edit the value in the register:
* DefaultTTL content value 00000040* EnablePMTUBHDetect content value 00000000* EnablePMTUDiscovery content value 00000001* GlobalMaxTcpWindowSize content value 0005ae4c* SackOpts content value 00000001* Tcp1323Opts content value 00,000,003* TcpWindowSize content value 0005ae4c* Restart the PC
INTERNET BROWSER SETTINGS AND TOOLS
* To optimize the browser, we can use to Speed up Firefox & Mozilla* Can you also use cFosSpeed tools such as the Accelerating Access the Internet with cFosSpeed
SETTING SMART APN
Due to the busy path used in # 777 username and password smart. Try to combine dialup * 777 # or 222 or * 99 # or * 31 * 11 111 # with the username and password is cdma or wap
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